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銆€銆€Pretend you are fine ![]() 銆€銆€Breakups. Even the most amicable of parting ways can sting. When mourning the end of a relationship, be sure to avoid the following “don’ts” of breakup etiquette.鍒嗘墜浜嗐€傚嵆渚挎槸浠ユ渶鍜屽钩鐨勬柟寮忚繕鏄細鎰熷埌鍒虹棝銆傚湪涓轰竴娈靛叧绯荤殑缁撴潫鑰岄毦杩囨椂锛屽埆蹇樹簡鍒嗘墜鐨勮鐭╋紝鍗冧竾鍒仛涓嬮潰杩?浠朵簨銆?/p> 銆€銆€1. Pretend you’re fine.鍋囪浣犲緢濂?/p> 銆€銆€Let yourself mourn. Cry. Punch a pillow. Journal. Surround yourself with friends who listen. The temptation may be to pretend you’re unaffected by the breakup; don’t let pride get in the way of being real. You don’t have to sob at the office, but take some quiet moments to reflect and be honest with yourself. It’s okay to be angry, hurt or humiliated. It’s healthier to express yourself honestly than grow numb. 銆€銆€鍏佽鑷繁浼ゅ績銆佸摥娉c€佹憯鎵撴灂澶淬€佸啓鏃ヨ銆佸悜鍛ㄥ洿鐨勬湅鍙嬪€捐瘔銆傛湁鏃跺€欎綘涔熻鎯冲亣瑁呰嚜宸遍潰瀵瑰垎鎵嬭嫢鏃犲叾浜嬶紱鍒鑷皧蹇冩帺鐩栦簡鐪熷疄鐨勮嚜宸便€備笉鏄璁╀綘鍦ㄥ姙鍏鍟滄常锛屼絾鏄彲浠ラ潤涓€闈欙紝缁欒嚜宸辩偣鏃堕棿鍧﹁瘹鍦伴潰瀵硅嚜宸便€傛劅瑙夋劋鎬掋€佺棝鑻︽垨缇炴劎閮芥槸姝e父鐨勩€傚拰浼楹绘湪鐩告瘮锛岀湡璇氬湴琛ㄧ幇鑷垜鏇村仴搴枫€?/p> 銆€銆€ |
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Author锛? 銆€銆€銆€Source锛? China Daily 銆€銆€銆€ Editor锛? Sun DongYang |